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		<title>Hermann Rorschach &#038; The Amazing Technicolor Inkblot</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 22:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[On a psychodiagnostic residency, where your job is just to understand people, one of the tools you use is the famous Rorschach Inkblot Test. In this test, the patient is shown a standard series of pictures created by squirting ink onto a page and then folding the page over. They are then asked to describe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On a psychodiagnostic residency, where your job is just to understand people, one of the tools you use is the famous Rorschach Inkblot Test. In this test, the patient is shown a standard series of pictures created by squirting ink onto a page and then folding the page over. They are then asked to describe what they see in the blots. The answers contain all the keys to the patient&#8217;s perception. You may not see, at first, how an explanation of this technique can be of any practical value to you unless you are training to be a psychologist, but if you&#8217;ll read on I can promise you there is a payoff for us wayward seekers of <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/">personal growth</a>.</p>
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<p>First, though, I need to give you a little background. Most people who are being trained to administer the Rorschach tend to be a little amazed at first when it actually works. And, of course, potential recipients of this test tend to be a little skeptical that it will actually be able to provide any worthwhile information about them. After all, what&#8217;s in an inkblot?</p>
<p>The story goes back to the early days of psychoanalysis, when the idea of an unconscious mind was fairly fresh and everyone was trying to figure ways to bring it out of hiding. Around this time, Carl Jung was discovering that a person&#8217;s reaction times to word associations could be used to detect <em>complexes</em>, which are hidden pockets of emotional energy that essentially take on a life of their own. For Rorschach, showing people random pictures&#8211;inkblots&#8211;was a way to see the <em>content</em> of those complexes in the backwards, metaphorical, <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/we-live-in-memories-and-dreams/">dreamlike state</a> that they exist.</p>
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<p>Enter Exner. John Exner decided to administer the Rorschach test to a large number of people and then statistically analyze not only the <em>content</em> of their answers, but the <em>process.</em> From this he would ascertain what types of people approach the problem in specific ways. After all, it is a highly generalizable situation: the patient is presented with a series of ambiguous stimuli and tasked with making some kind of sense out of them. How like life.</p>
<p>So you hold the card, you twist and turn it, and forms emerge. It is just like when you stare up into the clouds. Sometimes the images you see are simple and sometimes they are highly detailed; sometimes you can show other people exactly where they are and how they look, while other times your ideas about the cloud are a little bit far out and no one else can see it the way that you see it. Sometimes the way the edges of the cloud disperse light make it look rounded and three-dimensional, and sometimes the cloud&#8217;s texture or coloration contributes to the image. It&#8217;s a big fluffy dog, or a scaly dragon, or a ferocious mother-in-law.</p>
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<p>Any way you slice it, you can be certain that the image you see is as much a part of you as it is a quality of the cloud, and the same is true for a Rorschach inkblot. When you look at this ambiguous picture, you interpret it in a way that only you are uniquely prone to interpret things. There are, of course popular answers which many people see in a certain card.</p>
<p>The interesting thing is that even if someone gives nothing but popular answers, the interpreter can still tell a great deal about them as a person and about their mental state at the time the test was performed. This is because the most obvious forms that you might see in an inkblot are determined by the cultural frame of reference. If every answer you give on a Rorschach test is entirely conventional, I can consider that you are probably very highly adapted to the specific frame of reference that our western culture would suggest. After all, most people are not nearly so conventional in their perceptions. So, no matter how popular or unpopular your answers, the Rorschach inkblots help me to formulate my inquiry into you as an individual: <em>How did you come to interpret the world in the way that you currently interpret it?</em></p>
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<p>Now I promised a payoff when this article began, and hope to not disappoint. I&#8217;ve told you about a tool that I and other mental health professionals use to understand people, and I&#8217;ve told you how it basically works: present someone with an ambiguous stimulus, notice how they interpret it, and formulate questions that might help to explain their interpretive method. The only reason it is necessary to go through the procedure of administering a Rorschach inkblot test with someone is because I am unable to see through their eyes.</p>
<p>I am able, however, to see through my own eyes. And you are able to see through yours. And the world is a series of highly ambiguous stimuli. Therefore, the takeaway message is that your own perceptions represent a rich source of information about the parts of your own inner life that you have not yet gained access to. As always, the majority of our inner experience is completely unconscious, and we are only able to recognize the signatures of our unconscious workings in retrospect by examining what we have done.</p>
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<p>So how would you go about interpreting these results? Of course I feel that everyone with the means to do so should <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/types-of-psychotherapy/">find a psychotherapist</a> to work with in order to get objective help with their continual growth. But you can also learn to recognize some of what&#8217;s going on under your own hood just by becoming more mindful of the active role that your brain takes in interpreting the world around you.</p>
<p>I already mentioned conventionality as a factor worth looking into, so that will be a good place to draw an example from. What types of situations do you respond to in ways that are very much like your idea of what is normal, and what types of situations do you find yourself responding to in a more personalized or idiosyncratic way? Next, think about where your idea of normalcy came from.</p>
<p>Some people feel strongly that their own lives and situations have been very ordinary, while others think of &#8220;normal&#8221; as the type of thing that happens to the folks next door. And is this mundane vision something you aspire to, or something you strive to break away from? Now look back at whatever it was you thought of when I asked about the situations you respond to in a way that feels normal to you. In some ways, you&#8217;re likely to find that it matches your conscious ideals. But in other ways, you&#8217;ll often find that you act contrary to the way you have idealized. And <em>bingo</em>.</p>
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<p>That&#8217;s the beginning of the exploration of an unconscious decision-making process. Just continue to connect the dots and rationally inquire into the ways that you perceive things. If you find yourself alone in a dark room you might perceive that situation as comfortable and soothing because it lacks any social demands and gives you a needed rest from your strong inclination to figure out what&#8217;s going on around you. On the other hand, you might feel threatened by the lack of activity and contact in the room because you are highly invested in maintaining a positive level of interaction with the outside world. There are any number of ways you might respond, the key is simply to ask <em>why</em> you should respond that way.</p>
<p><!--Many folks in the psychological community have taken issue with the use of the Rorschach in general, mostly because they don't like the psychodynamic principles that it's based on. However, Exner's scoring method corrected many of the previous complaint's about the test's validity and even has a lot to offer folks whose main interest All of this is neither here nor there, the important thing is that it does work, there are many years of solid science to prove it, and the only caveat is that, like any other test, you shouldn't use its results all by themselves to make clinical judgements.--></p>
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		<title>Psychotherapy vs. Medication Management</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 May 2008 05:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Rose writes:
Can I get treated for depression?  I&#8217;ve just been prescribed anti-depresents and sedatives and I&#8217;m really frightened but feel I have no alternative as I can&#8217;t function normally.
Thanks for writing in, Rose. Your question touches on an issue that has stirred up a great deal of controversy over the last hundred years: the [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>Can I get treated for depression?  I&#8217;ve just been prescribed anti-depresents and sedatives and I&#8217;m really frightened but feel I have no alternative as I can&#8217;t function normally.</p></blockquote>
<p>Thanks for writing in, Rose. Your question touches on an issue that has stirred up a great deal of controversy over the last hundred years: the &#8220;talking cure,&#8221; as Freud called psychotherapy, versus pharmacological intervention. Personally, I think that both can be very useful if applied appropriately.</p>
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<p>It sounds like you&#8217;re struggling with feelings of both depression and anxiety, and have a lot of ambivalence about whether you should seek help with those feelings. So the first thing I&#8217;d like to put out there is that everyone is entitled to feel okay. There is no reason why anyone should have to go through their life feeling sad or fearful. <strong>Life is for enjoying.</strong> Few people would think twice about seeing a doctor for physical pain, but emotional pain has a stigma attached to it in our culture. People tend to feel guilty or inadequate when they find themselves suffering from depression and anxiety.</p>
<p>The problem is that we&#8217;re assuming that we somehow have control over the way we feel emotionally. So then when we feel bad we act as though it were our fault, or as though we deserve it. The fact is, the average person has no greater level of control over their cognitive or emotional functioning than they have over their autonomic or endocrine functioning. Neurologically, your thoughts, feelings, and even <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/body-language-and-unconscious-communication/">your actions originate outside of your awareness</a>.</p>
<p>The good news is that human consciousness is extremely flexible, and you can use that to your advantage. You can learn to gain awareness of things that were previously very deeply unconscious, and you can also learn to change the way that those unconscious processes work. Psychologists can use techniques like biofeedback to teach you to control  involuntary physiological functions like heart rate, blood pressure, and circulation. Techniques like neurofeedback can teach you to exert direct control over otherwise involuntary neurological functions. And psychotherapy can teach you how to understand and control your emotional life. None of these are things you will probably ever be able to do without special training. Psychologists are people whose job it is to scientifically investigate and implement ways of training people to accomplish feats that are essentially comparable to yoga.</p>
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<p>The problem I have with using medications to manage things like depression and anxiety are that the medications teach you nothing. They chemically alter the way that your brain processes your experience, but the experience itself remains largely the same. Please don&#8217;t get me wrong on this, a lot of people genuinely benefit from taking psychiatric medication, and if they have been prescribed to you then you should probably either take them as prescribed or seek a second opinion. Especially if you feel you&#8217;re not able to function normally.</p>
<p>However, some very good research has shown that people who receive psychotherapy in addition to medication tend to achieve much better long-term results than people who just take the meds. To me, this is completely unsurprising. I believe that people feel things for good reasons, that all of our thoughts and actions serve a purpose for us. You can suppress or modify the biological mechanics of what&#8217;s going on with drugs, but it won&#8217;t do anything about the underlying psychological reasons for what you&#8217;re experiencing. So, what happens a lot of the time is that people will either feel fine until they go off their meds, or do well on the meds until they start developing other types of psychological symptoms.</p>
<p>In my opinion, anyone who is suffering with uncontrollable thoughts or feelings should absolutely <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/types-of-psychotherapy/">find a psychotherapist</a> and commit to treatment. The value of psychiatric medications is that they can alleviate your symptoms in the short term, so that you&#8217;re able to regain a higher level of functionality while you address the real, underlying issues in therapy. And, to answer your question, psychotherapy is a very effective treatment for both depression and anxiety. Just be sure that you follow the guidelines in the article I linked to above about selecting a therapist who you can trust in and identify with enough to develop a good working alliance.</p>
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		<title>How To Enjoy The Simple Pleasures</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 05:20:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[A nice, relaxed meal; a slow walk on a sunny spring day; time alone with loved ones. It&#8217;s an accepted wisdom that the little things in life are often the most enjoyable. The more you allow yourself to stay in the moment and focus in on the simple pleasures, the better your overall quality of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A nice, relaxed meal; a slow walk on a sunny spring day; time alone with loved ones. It&#8217;s an accepted wisdom that the little things in life are often the most enjoyable. The more you allow yourself to stay in the moment and focus in on the simple pleasures, the better your overall quality of life will be. We all know this already.</p>
<p>The problem lies in trying to remember this simple truth in the midst of all of life&#8217;s craziness. Most of us have so much going on in our lives that it seems like all we can do to keep our focus on the deadlines we have to meet, the objectives we have to reach, and the expectations we have to live up to. On top of that, most of us find ourselves surrounded by people who are at least as preoccupied with these things as we are, which reinforces our focus squarely on those things which have the least chance of making us happy right now, in this moment.</p>
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<p>The strategy outlined below will help you to structure your life around those little things that really matter, while still allowing you to accomplish all of the things you want to accomplish. In fact, following this strategy will actually <em>increase</em> your ability to get things done. You&#8217;ll be able to feel happier and more focused knowing that you will be properly rewarded for your efforts not just in some distant future, but right away! When we feel fulfilled, the work we do toward future goals feels more satisfying; it loses the desperate quality of work that comes from an unfulfilled and desperate place.</p>
<p><strong>Plan ahead to really enjoy this next experience</strong></p>
<p>We&#8217;re often simpler creatures than we give ourselves credit for. One of the main components in having any type of experience that you want to have is simply <em>planning</em> to have that experience. You have to lay it out in no uncertain terms so that your conscious and unconscious processes can all get on the same page.</p>
<p>If you keep a to-do list or a day-planner, add in time specifically set aside for enjoying the simple pleasures in your life. Do this even if you already know you&#8217;re going to be doing them. If you know you&#8217;ll have only 15 minutes for lunch, pencil yourself in. <em>12:00-12:15 Enjoy a breather with a nice quick lunch.</em> By planning it out this way, you give yourself permission to take that 15 minutes and enjoy it, rather than rushing through it on your way to something else.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re like me, you don&#8217;t have any kind of cohesive calendaring system, and that&#8217;s fine too. When you&#8217;re about to take that cigarette break, or that 20 minutes to futz around with your MySpace page, or that half hour before bed to just unwind, don&#8217;t be afraid to talk to yourself. Say, &#8220;Okay, great. Now I&#8217;ll have this many minutes to just enjoy this nice cool spring breeze with this beautiful glass of wine.&#8221; Be descriptive, sell yourself on it. It&#8217;s not just a meal break, it&#8217;s free time to enjoy a luscious meal.</p>
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<p><strong>Use the reward system to overcome procrastination</strong></p>
<p>When all you&#8217;re feeling is the stress of having to get something done, it becomes much more difficult to focus on doing what you need to do. You can reduce this effect <em>and</em> allow yourself some moments of pure and simple pleasure by planning your reward. It shouldn&#8217;t be anything fancy—new research actually shows that the promise of big rewards tends to reduce productivity. It&#8217;s the little things that we really crave, and so that&#8217;s exactly what you should promise yourself as soon as you finish your task. And follow through on your promise!</p>
<p><strong>Plan what you&#8217;ll do afterward to know you deserve this time for yourself</strong></p>
<p>Really busy people often complain that they can&#8217;t enjoy their free time because they feel guilty over all the things they&#8217;re not getting done. Believe me, I can identify. A nice way to overcome this feeling is by not only marking out your time that is specifically for enjoyment, but also planning what productive thing you&#8217;re going to do when you&#8217;re done. </p>
<p>One of the key experiences of this relaxation guilt is the flight of ideas about all the things you could or should be doing. A lot of the time this is because you&#8217;re so used to having a plan of action that you&#8217;re not quite sure how to step outside of that. So don&#8217;t fight it! Let yourself be whatever you will be, and make your plan for action and get it all settled before you begin relaxing, so that you can be absolutely sure you&#8217;ll be fresh and ready to go when the time comes.</p>
<p>Post a comment about the simple pleasures that you enjoy the most, and the ways you find to cram them into your busy life.</p>
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		<title>Defining Torture</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 03:09:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Eric Puryear writes:
A fellow law student and I were debating the current issue of terrorist interrogation, and what practices would offend anti-torture aspects of the constitution and international treaties.  The question came up as to whether any practice which compelled someone to speak against their will was torture (see the UN torture definition at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.ericpuryear.com">Eric Puryear</a> writes:</p>
<blockquote><p>A fellow law student and I were debating the current issue of terrorist interrogation, and what practices would offend anti-torture aspects of the constitution and international treaties.  The question came up as to whether any practice which compelled someone to speak against their will was torture (see the UN torture definition at the top of the page: <a rel="nofollow" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torture" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Torture</a>).  From a psychological perspective, what are your thoughts sir?</p></blockquote>
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<p>The definition you reference essentially says that any intentional infliction of severe pain or suffering  is torture. And I think most people would generally agree. The problem is that no one seems to agree on how severe that suffering has to be. Is waterboarding severe enough? How about being tazed? Is sleep deprivation torture? Loud music? Bad food? Public humiliation? It all depends who you ask. The folks who have an interest in the torturing will usually say <em>no</em>, and the folks who are being tortured will probably always say <em>yes</em>.</p>
<p>I think the thing to understand here is that everyone sees themselves as the good guys. The torturer is defending god or country or freedom, <em>and so is the recipient of the torture.</em> The situation is hopeless. I recommend against involvement.</p>
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		<title>How I Learned To Stop Worrying and Love CSI:Miami</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 00:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s face it: if you&#8217;re reading this article, you&#8217;re probably not like the others. There has probably always been something a little different, maybe even a little awkward about you. But you used that difference as a strength; you took it as your permission to explore the world from new angles, and to develop yourself [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s face it: if you&#8217;re reading this article, you&#8217;re probably not like the others. There has probably always been something a little different, maybe even a little awkward about you. But you used that difference as a strength; you took it as your permission to explore the world from new angles, and to develop yourself into the sort of person who keeps working to develop yourself. And you probably succeed in your <a href="http://waytogogodot.com">personal development</a>. You are probably much more motivated than the general public, much more likely to succeed in business, more likely to enjoy a happy family life and to age gracefully.</p>
<p>Carl Jung based much of his psychology on the idea that people and societies are fundamentally balanced, that each of us has all of the possible dramatic configurations and mythological motivations built in, and that they each have equal importance for our overall being. This means that the things that you really hate about other people are exactly the parts of yourself that you are trying to disavow. Jung called these parts <em>the shadow</em>.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I think it&#8217;s so important to <a href="http://www.cbs.com/primetime/csi_miami/video/">watch CSI:Miami</a>.</p>
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<p>Many of us deadly-focused workaholics have turned off our televisions in disgust, often for years at a time. Why? Because of its rampant commercialization of human emotion, its perversion of body image and sexuality, its role in the political complacency of the viewing public and use as a propaganda machine for corrupt governments, its certain role in the immediate onset of the 7 plagues, and so forth. But I&#8217;ve got to tell you: you really ought to be <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/i-heart-csi-miami/">watching CSI:Miami</a>.</p>
<p>Because we all need balance. And when you&#8217;re an unflinching intellectual cowboy or an existentialist in wolf&#8217;s clothing, then the type of balance you need, as completely far-out as it might sound, is CSI:Miami. Because it is bar-none the stupidest and prettiest thing on television. Because it explains every plot-point to you in a way that a stoned 8-year-old can understand while delivering serious explosions and breasts. Because you can shut off your mind, relax, and trust the process.</p>
<p>We all need a balance between <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/mindfulness-meditation-tutorial/">mindfulness</a> and mindlessness. And when the implausibly tough-minded forensic analyst Horatio Caine (played by the artfully artless David Caruso) says something comically pithy in that deep whisper of his (the mystical &#8220;Horatio Moment&#8221;) and The Who&#8217;s &#8220;Won&#8217;t Get Fooled Again&#8221; starts playing, it&#8217;s pure mindless TV magic. The bright colors, the CGI, the unbelievable drama and reckless abuse of plot devices. You just can&#8217;t take it seriously. And that&#8217;s the beauty of it.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re like me, then you need to learn to <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/i-heart-csi-miami/">love CSI:Miami</a>. Because for anyone who thinks they&#8217;re too good for proletarian mass-media delights, who prides themselves on critical thinking and depth and subtlety, this show encapsulates <em>the shadow</em> and delivers it in a form that could, by way of worry-free enjoyment, ultimately lead to an acceptance of a part of yourself that was previously disavowed. Jung called the gradual process of reconciliation with the shadow <em>individuation</em>. It is an unfolding of the self into a fully realized, vibrant and harmonious individual.</p>
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<p>CSI:Miami is your permission slip to turn off your mind and return to equilibrium. It&#8217;s okay to be stupid for a little while; it&#8217;s <em>necessary.</em> Because if we are to be balanced as individuals, we must appreciate and incorporate the cultural heritage of our people, in our time. CSI:Miami is our rain dance. Sop it up.</p>
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		<title>The Happiness Project</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 17:15:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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In February, Alex Shalman had the great idea to explore what people mean when they say they want to be happy. The result was a list of five simple questions that formed the basis for bunch of really great interviews which you can read over at The Happiness Project page. What&#8217;s great about these interviews [...]]]></description>
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<p>In February, <a href="http://www.alexshalman.com/">Alex Shalman</a> had the great idea to explore what people mean when they say they want to be happy. The result was a list of five simple questions that formed the basis for bunch of really great interviews which you can read over at <a href="http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/happiness-project/">The Happiness Project</a> page. What&#8217;s great about these interviews is not only finding out what motivates a number of very interesting and motivated individuals, but also the fact that in each one you can probably find some aspect of your own personal motivations. Reading through the interviews, I felt as though I were making contact with the positive natures of dozens of my own hidden personas.</p>
<p>Now I&#8217;d like to contribute to The Happiness Project by answering these questions myself, and by encouraging you <a href="http://www.alexshalman.com/blog/2008/03/01/happiness-the-group-writing-project/">to do the same</a>.</p>
<p><strong>1. How do you define happiness?</strong></p>
<p>For me, happiness is the feeling of being full and satisfied, of not missing anything. Often I have everything I need, but am not happy because for some reason I am caught up in something I <em>have needed</em>, or something I <em>will need</em>. When I am happy, life is simple and activity is rewarding. When I am unhappy, the very same life can feel excessively complicated, and the very same activities can feel forced and meaningless.</p>
<p>As I talk about it now, I realize that happiness seems to almost be an independent variable. Certainly the events in my life affect my ability to be happy for better or for worse, but it is my reaction to those events which ultimately determines how I feel in this moment.</p>
<p><strong>2. On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your happiness now, versus when you were a child?</strong></p>
<p>As we look back on our early lives, the memories that we find there change based on our current beliefs. If, for example, you have an internal belief that your adult life will never match the bliss of childhood, you will not only remember only the happy times, but will even put a positive spin on events that you could otherwise remember in a negative light. As you improve your outlook on the present, you will gain access to a more realistic view of your early life.</p>
<p>I remember being a problematic and unhappy child, always convinced that life would improve as I grew older and gained greater command over myself and my social environment. It seems I was right! Every year since my 23rd birthday has been the best year of my life. I&#8217;m about to put a button on my 28th year, and I have absolute confidence that 29 will be better still. Life begins at 30, and 40 is the new 20  <img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Still, when I probe more carefully into the reality of my childhood situation, I can find reasons to doubt the accuracy of my memory. When I look closely, I can see that I was often less problematic than I like to give myself credit for. In many situations, my actions were very effective at drawing attention and emotional energy away from the problems of my family members, thereby offering them the only type of relief that I could have given them. I remember feeling unhappy, but to what extent am I simply overlooking the times when I felt happy in order to satisfy my current semi-conscious need to have <em>earned</em> the happiness that I currently enjoy, or to have <em>escaped</em> from some terrible circumstance?</p>
<p>Regardless, I&#8217;ll take a happy present over a happy past any day of the week. In the future, I think I&#8217;ll learn to access more of my happiest early memories, and to spin my early life in a much more positive way than I have done in early adulthood. I think my happiness level is up to about an 8 now; I like having something to work toward.</p>
<p><strong>3. What do you do on a daily basis that brings you happiness? (and how consistent is the feeling of happiness throughout your day)</strong></p>
<p>As a doctoral student, life is stressful and challenging. I tend to be busy with work, classes, papers, residency, case reports, applications, qualifying exams, and all manner of similar craziness about 90% of my waking life. The remaining time I try to spend with my wonderful fiancée, which leaves very little personal time and even less time to spend with friends.</p>
<p>The crazy thing is, I&#8217;m learning to enjoy the commotion. I&#8217;m learning to <em>reflect on the go</em>, to squeeze meditation and blogging into my morning commute, to really savor the hour at the end of each day when I sit down and reconnect with my loved one over a glass of wine and a cigarette. I&#8217;m learning to have a sense of humor about my externalized coping strategies. Little by little, I&#8217;m learning to <em>decide</em> to enjoy this. All of it. And to appreciate the people around me just for being here to share this madness with me.</p>
<p><strong>4. What things take away from your happiness? What can be done to lessen their impact or remove them from your life?</strong></p>
<p>What takes away from my happiness is when I <em>forget</em>. As Bill Hicks said so well, it&#8217;s just a ride; it&#8217;s just a choice that we can make right now, between love and fear. The more I remember, the better life gets.</p>
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<p><strong>5. What do you plan on doing in the future that will bring you even more happiness?</strong></p>
<p>Over the last year, my clinical training and personal explorations have brought me a really long way toward understanding people who I previously could not make any sense out of. As a result, my relationships are improving, my everyday interactions are improving, it is easier and more natural for me to find help when I need it, and to understand when other people need help. And with each step toward a higher level of empathy for other people, I find that I also discover a greater level of empathy for myself.</p>
<p>So often we fail to understand ourselves, instead blaming or shaming ourselves for our imagined shortcomings or projecting our fears and frustrations onto the people around us. I believe more and more that everyone does exactly what they <em>have</em> to do to get by, given the internal and external resources available to them. My plan for personal development and increased happiness is to keep learning to understand people, to keep learning to understand myself, and to keep nurturing the love that is struggling to grow inside of me.</p>
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		<title>We Live in Memories and Dreams</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 15:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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In my recent article on hypnosis, I mentioned fairly casually that we don&#8217;t live in the present moment. We live in memories and dreams.
This is an idea that will not be unfamiliar to those with a mystic bent, but the rest of you may suspect that there is some craziness going on here. [...]]]></description>
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<p>In my recent article on <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/hypnosis-facts/">hypnosis</a>, I mentioned fairly casually that we don&#8217;t live in the present moment. We live in memories and dreams.</p>
<p>This is an idea that will not be unfamiliar to those with a mystic bent, but the rest of you may suspect that there is some craziness going on here. In fact, there is! <img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  But it is a craziness that is supported by a lot of very good neurological and psychological research.</p>
<p>Psychologists have been talking about a phenomenon called <strong>transference</strong> for over a hundred years now. Transference is what happens when you react to someone in a way that isn&#8217;t justified by the situation itself, but rather points back to an earlier experience that you had with someone else. You have <em>transferred</em> the feelings from the person in your past onto the person in your present.</p>
<p>The reason this has been such a big topic in psychology is because it becomes a <em>major</em> factor in psychotherapy: in order to understand what&#8217;s happening with your patient, you have to unravel the mysteries of their transferences both outside and <em>inside</em> of the consulting room. Where this gets difficult is that the therapist is in no way immune from this effect. The therapist experiences what is called <strong>countertransference</strong>. Essentially, the whole time that the therapist is trying to figure out what kinds of misplaced emotions and perceptions the patient has brought into the room, they must also figure out which of those feelings belong to their own past, rather than to the patient&#8217;s.</p>
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<p>The last thirty years of neuroscience have been gradually building up to an understanding of the way that we represent people and situations within our actual brains. This has involved a lot of deep thinking about the nature of experience, and also a large number of cut-up rat brains. Researchers have traced the paths of neurological signals as they activate emotional responses, as they stimulate the formation of new memories, and as they trigger the retrieval of old memories.</p>
<p>In fact, we never experience the actual reality that we believe we are interacting with. We experience a kind of <em>touched up</em> version of the world around us, running on a slight time-delay, and filtered through the patterns of all of our prior experiences. In other words, we experience the present only in relation to previous versions of the same moment that have been neurologically coded into response pathways. To put it in more psychological terms, we experience a version of reality that largely conforms to our existing worldview. We take the endless quantity of information around us, and fit it into a pattern that makes sense.</p>
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<p>Of course, all of this is done completely automatically. The part of you that you identify with and think of as your self—the consciousness—constitutes only a very small portion of the total neurological (and psychological) functioning. What&#8217;s more, the consciousness is consistently late to the party: it only receives the finished perceptions from the rest of the brain after they have been fully processed. And that includes not only perceptions of what is going on outside of you, but inside as well. Even actions. When you feel like you are making a conscious decision to perform a certain movement of your body, for example, neurologically the decision was made before you had the conscious idea for it. The parts of your brain that govern the movement itself go to work before the parts that make the conscious decision to move.</p>
<p>The <em>you</em> that&#8217;s doing all of this is larger than “you” could possibly imagine, and you can only find out what it&#8217;s up to by examining your actions after-the-fact. We do not live <em>in the world</em>, we live in a series of memories and dreams <em>about the world</em>. These experiences are produced for us by a vast unconscious mind that is unconcerned with our claims to conscious decision-making.</p>
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		<title>8 Things You Didn&#8217;t Know About Hypnosis (That Could Change Your Life Forever)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 23:29:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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Hypnosis is a sort of spooky and misunderstood phenomenon. Most of what people generally know about hypnosis comes from movies and stage performers, not real clinical hypnotists.


You may not even realize that clinical hypnosis is a very well-established and scientifically validated medical practice. It&#8217;s used by psychotherapists, physicians, nurses, dentists, and anesthesiologists to produce a [...]]]></description>
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Hypnosis is a sort of spooky and misunderstood phenomenon. Most of what people generally know about hypnosis comes from movies and stage performers, not real clinical hypnotists.
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You may not even realize that clinical hypnosis is a very well-established and scientifically validated medical practice. It&#8217;s used by psychotherapists, physicians, nurses, dentists, and anesthesiologists to produce a profound sense of serenity in patients who might otherwise be <em>really freaking out</em>. As it turns out, hypnosis is an incredibly versatile and powerful <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/category/techniques/">psychological technique</a>, so it would be in your best interests to know a little bit about it and to be open to the idea.
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With that in mind, I&#8217;ll dispel some of the major myths about hypnosis and tell you some far-out realities about it as well:
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<strong>1. Hypnosis has no relationship to gullibility</strong>
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A lot of people believe that only gullible people can be hypnotized. This is actually a pretty natural assumption, since the hypnotic experience does involve a heightened state of suggestibility. There have even been studies done to measure “gullibility” and “suggestibility” as a personality factor, and to try and correlate those factors with hypnotic susceptibility. In fact, none of those studies has ever established such a correlation.
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There seems to be simply no relationship at all between how gullible you are and how susceptible you are to hypnosis. You might be a really hard-nosed critical thinker and be highly hypnotizable, or you could be a real sucker and actually have very low hypnotic ability. There&#8217;s simply no relationship at all.
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<strong>2. There is some correlation to intelligence and creativity</strong>
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Hypnotic ability is actually somewhat related to IQ. Highly hypnotizable people tend to be just a little more intelligent and a little more creative than the rest of the world. Sound familiar?
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<strong>3. It&#8217;s partly genetic</strong>
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That&#8217;s right, to some extent you actually <em>inherit</em> the ability to be hypnotized! Pretty much anyone can be hypnotized to some extent, however, so the major difference is basically just how good at it you are.
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There are also a variety of ways that you can actually improve your hypnotic ability, too. Anything that generally improves your mind-body relationship will also tend to improve your hypnotic ability. So things like <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/mindfulness-meditation-tutorial/">mindfulness meditation</a>, biofeedback, and artistic, musical, or theatrical training all tend to enhance your ability to experience hypnotic phenomena.
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<strong>4. You can&#8217;t get stuck in a hypnotic trance</strong>
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We all want to have an <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000AP04L0?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=dgodot-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B000AP04L0">Office Space</a> experience and breeze through a few weeks of our lives on autopilot. Some people are probably a little apprehensive, though, about losing control and getting stuck in some catatonic state. Rest assured, this is not possible. If someone left you in a hypnotic trance, the worst that could happen would probably be jerking awake and feeling a little startled. More likely, you would probably just fall asleep, and eventually wake up feeling happy and refreshed  <img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />
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<strong>5. You probably do it every day</strong>
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The hypnotic experience is not at all unusual! Have you ever rocked a baby? It&#8217;s such a simple thing to do—but just by introducing a nice gentle rhythm into the baby&#8217;s experience, you change its whole frame of mind. You hypnotize babies.
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Even my cat hypnotizes me! It lays on my chest and matches its purring to my heartbeat, gradually leading me down into slower and slower rhythms so I won&#8217;t get up and spoil its nap. Any time a group of people are in a room together, the tendency is for all of them to fall into a similar breathing pattern. Basically everything we do involves varying levels of trance phenomena.
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If you&#8217;ve ever been driving in your car and suddenly realized you had arrived without really being able to remember the trip, it&#8217;s pretty safe to say that you were experiencing a trance state very much like hypnosis. Another great example is when the credits start to roll and you suddenly realize you&#8217;re in a movie theatre! You&#8217;ve been enjoying a very nice hypnotic trance.
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<strong>6. People have surgery with no anesthesia, and have a good time!</strong>
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Probably not everyone is hypnotically gifted enough to maintain a state of complete comfort through a surgery without any drugs, but it&#8217;s not nearly as uncommon as you&#8217;d think! See for yourself:
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<strong>7. Hypnosis can turn off inflammation like a switch</strong>
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Burns, bites, allergies? Your mind has the ability to completely change your body&#8217;s response to any of these.
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Under hypnosis, burned skin can be told not to swell up or to detach from the underlying flesh. This means that if you know how, you can actually talk your body out of blistering. You can even talk your body <em>into</em> blistering. I&#8217;m not sure why you&#8217;d want to, but I&#8217;ve seen it done! Allergic reactions can literally be convinced not to happen.
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<strong>8. Hypnosis might be able to alter your genes</strong>
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There&#8217;s a very famous old case from 1952 that was studied by the British Royal Society of Medicine, where a boy had a congenital skin disorder that gave him crusty, fish-like scales all over his body. The disease is called congenital <em>ichtyosiform erythrodermia of brocq</em>, and it means that your skin&#8217;s oil glands don&#8217;t develop, so your skin cells won&#8217;t flake off as they die. The boy was unwittingly treated with hypnosis by a doctor who thought he simply had a bad case of warts, since hypnosis is very effective for warts. Actually, it turned out that <a href="http://www.pubmedcentral.nih.gov/articlerender.fcgi?artid=2021155">you can do that</a>!
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Nobody knows for sure exactly what changed in the boy&#8217;s physiology. In order for this condition to be cured, you&#8217;d have to modify the way the boy&#8217;s genes are expressed. Modern gene therapy isn&#8217;t even close yet, but in the early 50s this guy healed a kid&#8217;s genetic skin condition using nothing but the power of the boy&#8217;s own mind. Crazier still, there&#8217;s actually a lot of more modern scientific evidence that <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0393703436?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=dgodot-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0393703436">hypnosis can affect the way that genes are expressed</a>. What a ride.</p>
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		<title>New Residency At Chicago Lakeshore Hospital</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[At this point in my clinical training, I have spent nearly a year on what is called the psychodiagnostic practicum. What that means is that my main job for the last year, as a psych extern at the Diamond Headache Clinic inpatient unit, has been to figure out what psychological factors are playing a role [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At this point in my clinical training, I have spent nearly a year on what is called the <em>psychodiagnostic practicum</em>. What that means is that my main job for the last year, as a psych extern at the Diamond Headache Clinic inpatient unit, has been to figure out what psychological factors are playing a role in our patients&#8217; headache pain.</p>
<p>This is a tricky thing to try and do, for a number of reasons:</p>
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<li>It&#8217;s tricky to figure out what&#8217;s going on with anybody, psychologically. People are pretty complicated; when things go wrong, they rarely go wrong for just one reason. Typically any psychological problem will have some genetic components, and some environmental components, and some relational components, and some intrapsychic components. You don&#8217;t really get the luxury of pointing to one thing in someone&#8217;s past and saying you&#8217;ve found <em>the</em> answer.</li>
<li>These people tend to be especially complicated. There&#8217;s some research to suggest that chronic pain patients are more likely to meet criteria for personality disorders than other types of patients. In my experiences, I&#8217;ve found that even those who don&#8217;t meet criteria for those diagnoses usually have pretty deep-seated ways of interacting with the world that unintentionally serve to maintain their pain status.</li>
<li>Headache patients, in particular, are usually pretty resistant to psychological asssessment. This is mostly because they have gotten used to being told that the very real pain that they experience on a daily basis is “all in their head.” Usually they hear this from physicians who are simply frustrated that none of their tests come back positive and nothing they do seems to change anything. The same goes for any other type of chronic pain patient, and probably many people with IBS as well.</li>
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<p>So what I do currently is I go into each patient&#8217;s hospital room and spend about 30-60 minutes finding out how they feel, what their life is like, what it was like growing up, what kinds of relationships they have, and what kinds of stress they experience. From this, I try to draw connections between all of the different factors, in order to figure out what kinds of psychological treatments might be effective in reducing their headache pain. If a case is particularly complicated, and if we have the time, I will administer the patient an intensive 8-hour battery of psychological tests which help me to pin-point exactly what kinds of cognitive and personality issues they face.</p>
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<p>It&#8217;s actually quite beautiful: my entire job is to find out how people are put together and what makes them tick. What I&#8217;m especially looking for, when I conduct a psychological interview, are the parts that the patients themselves cannot possibly allow themselves to know. And when I say this, I want you to know that I am not only talking about chronic pain patients. We all have parts of ourselves and our lives that we cannot know, that we must defend against at all costs. I&#8217;ll go into more detail about these unconscious defensive processes in an upcoming post.</p>
<p>For now, I&#8217;d like to announce a new clinical practicum! After I finish up at Diamond Headache in June, I&#8217;ll begin a new one-year psychotherapy externship at <a href="http://www.chicagolakeshorehospital.com/GLBT/">Chicago Lakeshore Hospital&#8217;s Valeo Program</a>, which is Chicago&#8217;s only inpatient and intensive outpatient therapy for GLBT individuals. About 50% of my patients there will be HIV positive, and about 50% of them will suffer from substance abuse disorders in addition to their other psychological troubles, which will run the gamut from anxiety and depression, to eating disorders, to identity disturbances, to personality disorders. I&#8217;ll be taking on anywhere from 4 to 8 individual patients per week, and doing 2 or 3 therapy groups each week as well.</p>
<p>The Valeo program is a <em>very</em> competitive training site, and I was selected from more than 60 applicants! Way to go, Godot!</p>
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		<title>Boost Your Creativity For Good With This Long-Term Strategy</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Apr 2008 19:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Godot</dc:creator>
		
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A million authors have written a million articles about amping up your creativity for a minute or two at a time. This article is different, because I intend to help you develop a full strategy for boosting your creativity whenever you need it and as much as you need.


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A million authors have written a million articles about amping up your creativity for a minute or two at a time. This article is different, because I intend to help you develop a full strategy for boosting your creativity whenever you need it and as much as you need.
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The first thing to get a grasp of is exactly what creativity is. <strong>Creativity is novelty.</strong> When someone does something unexpected, we refer to that as a creative choice.
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The only way to make unexpected decisions is to see some of the unexpected options which are open to you. This is what people tend to find the most difficult, because there is ultimately no way to really expect the unexpected. You have to find a way to open your eyes to something that has been in front of you all along. And <em>that</em> is creativity. <strong>Creativity is perspective.</strong>
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So here&#8217;s how to open your eyes:
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<strong>1. Clear your mind.<br />
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<p>Often this is actually all that is needed. We get so wrapped up in looking at a problem from a particular perspective that all we need is a little bit of distance in order to perceive the solution.
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You should, of course, try to clear your mind using a method that is congruent with the problem at hand. If you&#8217;re a mathematician who has been quietly contemplating a problem for three years, a bath could do the trick. If you&#8217;re an ad-man in need of a manic flight of last-minute ideas, on the other hand, a moment of contemplation may not be for you this time around—try going out for a run. If you&#8217;re somewhere in between, a good walk can work wonders; walking has a hypnotic rhythm that can focus your mind and allow unconscious processes to exert a greater influence.
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<strong>2. </strong><strong>Exercise and get plenty of sleep.</strong>
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Yes, I know. Blah blah blah. But, there is growing evidence that regular exercise and sleep are both powerfully related to your mental health and cognitive functioning. Specifically, exercise prevents depression and improves mental focus, and sleep seems to be your brain&#8217;s primary way of consolidating your memories and perceptions. Since all of these will directly affect the depth of perspective that you have to work with, they will both enhance your creativity.
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<strong>3. Undo burnout.</strong>
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If you work <em>all the time</em> like I do, it&#8217;s easy to get burned out. Give yourself some contrast. Schedule a day when you will not leave the bed. Read, watch movies, order out, drink champagne. Ideally, you&#8217;ll have company for this one.
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<strong>4. Commune with nature.</strong>
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<div class=rightimg align=center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/technowannabe/499023331/"><img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/499023331_dd283ebf8d.jpg' title='Weirdo' border=0/></a><br />Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/technowannabe/">Todd Baker</a></div>
<p>If you&#8217;re spending all of your time inside, surrounded by the same stale old decorations and furniture, the same straight lines and white walls, then it&#8217;s no wonder you&#8217;re in a slump.
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The things we see outside of us, especially the things we see over and over again, are literally recreated inside our brains. Not just our minds, but our actual physical brains. The moral of the story? You need to expose yourself to nature. The outside world has trees and birds and all manner of unpredictable things. You need some more dirt and bugs in your life. Make a mud pie and seriously consider eating it.
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<strong>5. </strong><strong>Record your dreams.</strong>
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Your dreams are your very own natural wellspring of creativity—Freud called them the <em>royal road to the unconscious</em>.
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Whether or not you are able to remember, you actually dream every single night, and you do so throughout the night. Periods of dream sleep tend to cycle in about every 90 minutes, and get longer as the night goes on. So an extra hour of sleep in the morning can yield a substantial increase in total dream activity.
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Keep a journal by your bedside and resolve to wake up and immediately start writing down your experiences while they&#8217;re fresh in your mind. It may be a little difficult at first, but short, vague entries will soon become long, detailed ones. Then go back and re-read your dreams and try to understand what they might be trying to tell you—try to adopt the dream&#8217;s perspective. Doing this will definitely get you more in touch with your creativity. For help learning how to interpret dreams, why not <a href="http://waytogogodot.com/ask-a-question/">submit a dream here</a>?
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<strong>6. Try out a new medium.</strong>
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<div class=leftimg align=center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/laffy4k/404321726/"><img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/404321726_1dd8836d141.jpg' title='Weirdo' border=0/></a><br />Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/laffy4k/">laffy4k</a></div>
<p>What are you actually trying to do creatively? Write? Market? Design? Draw? It&#8217;s easy to get stuck in a pattern of doing the same things the same way. Break out of that old pattern by switching to a medium you&#8217;re less familiar with.
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Try watercolors or clay, poetry or bongo drums. Really struggle with it; have fun; go crazy. If you can&#8217;t seem to let yourself go, make yourself a promise that you can throw away the results in one week. Don&#8217;t worry about skill, just let it flow. Then think about whether the way you&#8217;ve approached this new problem might be able to tell you anything about the way you approach the old problem.
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<strong>7. </strong><strong>Brainstorm drunkenly.</strong>
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If you actually have to get drunk to do this then so be it, but you can probably do without.
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If you&#8217;re in a creative rut, you&#8217;re probably just a little gunked up. You need to squirt out whatever you&#8217;ve got at random in order to get through all the crap, so don&#8217;t worry about whether you&#8217;re getting results. Just sit down and write down absolutely everything that comes to mind, no matter how irrelevant it might seem. Later you can go back and separate the wheat from the chaff, and if you look carefully you may even find some hidden gems. It may even be that your idea of what is “good” is more rigid than you&#8217;d like to believe, so recruit some trusted help in sifting through your ramblings.
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<strong>8. </strong><strong>Activate your imagination.</strong>
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Creativity is really just the ability to adopt a novel perspective, so you need to stretch your eyeballs out a little bit. Allow yourself some time to daydream, and really get into it. Make a special costume or uniform that you can wear when you know you need to go really off-the-wall. Build a fort out of sheets and chairs.  <img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />
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In order to stay reliably creative, you&#8217;re going to have to be reliably flexible, and that means actively breaking your own routines. Try to see how many different routes home you can find, or how many different ways you can think of to greet your co-workers in the morning. Try like hell to avoid ever living the same moment more than twice.
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Also, and I hate to tell you this, but if you want to be a creative genius, you&#8217;re going to have to end up behaving a little strangely sometimes. <em>Embrace the strange.<br />
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<strong>9. </strong><strong>Really stretch.</strong>
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<div class=rightimg align=center><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/umbrellagurl/20292277/"><img src='http://waytogogodot.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/20292277_06e0708dd1.jpg' title='Weirdo' border=0/></a><br />Photo by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/umbrellagurl/">Lil Erna</a></div>
<p>Try to embrace an entire worldview that is completely opposed to your own. If you&#8217;re an atheist, go to church and allow yourself to <em>really believe every word—</em>let yourself feel in awe of the profound implications. If you&#8217;re a die-hard conservative, go to a rally and genuinely try to save something. If you&#8217;re an intellectual, go to the most brain-dead movie you can find and hoot and holler at the screen. Act as if you were someone else from an entirely different background, and <em>perspective will come</em>.</p>
<p>To recap, <strong>creativity is the ability to adopt a novel perspective</strong>. This means that all you have to do to be consistently creative is to allow yourself to consistently see things you wouldn&#8217;t have otherwise seen. So mix it up a little. Go places you wouldn&#8217;t go, think things you wouldn&#8217;t think, and behave in ways you wouldn&#8217;t behave. Develop a healthy scientific curiosity about it all—<em>I wonder what would happen if I did this? What if I started from a different set of assumptions?</em>
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Keep your body healthy, your mind sharp, and cultivate this sense of wonder, and you will always be the most creative kid on your block!</p>
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